Hello there, advice seeker. As my first blog, I would like to address a problem that many females (possibly you too) may not realize they even have when it comes to themselves in their relationships. Women forget to put their happiness first and instead become stressed in something that should be doing the opposite. Relationships are supposed to be fun, remember? And although that can't be true all the time, a situation that wears and tears someone away isn't exactly the best relationship.
We (females) tend to overlook the problems in bad relationships, settling for what we have instead of giving ourselves higher standards for what we deserve. Now, I'm not saying that we should all want standards through the roof that no man (or woman) could ever match up to, but realize what we need for a relationship to work.
So look at yourself in the mirror -- right now. Look at yourself and ask, 'Am I happy?' If you can't answer that question, or you know the answer and it isn't what it should be, make a change. And I know what you're thinking. It's not as easy as it sounds. But it never is. Sometimes you have make choices you don't want to in order to find the happiness you deserve. Whether the decision is to confront your partner about problems in the relationship, or cut it off all together, it won't be the end of the world. And while you may think it is at the time, eventually you will heal and realize you're much better off in the end.
Last of all, just remember -- you're happiness is important to your well being in order for you to live the life that you want to live. Don't forget that, or else you may find yourself trapped in a situation that leaves you drained and miserable. So please, don't worry about the stress, drama, and pain that you may have in your life and focus on what it could be, what you have the ability to make it into.
Be happy.
-- Anonymous Girl <3
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